Ok, so I hear all this talk about the wisdom of the crowds, perhaps it's time to ask a question.
To all those that are married, were married, want to be married, wish they had married, and those that are glad they haven't/never did, I ask...
To those that are: When did you decide? Was it all at once, or did it just sort of make more sense as time went on?
To those that were: Same basic questions, but with the caveat that whatever ended it, do you regret the time that was? Is there something fundamental that could've been avoided in hindsight?
To those that wish: Was it a lack of finding that person, or is there a regret for holding back in the asking?
To those that are glad without: No pointed question, just curious of the reasoning.
Not probing for personal or painful details, just asking the question for my own studies...